130 Flirty Text Messages To Send To A Guy You Just Met (The Best Examples) 2023 (2023)

The ultimate list of fun and flirty text messages to send to a guy you just met. Send him one of these messages to get him to totally think about you non-stop.

Meeting the guy and exchanging numbers was the easy part. Now it’s time to keep the connection alive with him long enough to get to the next step and hopefully a date.

But what should you text him?You want to be flirty and fun but obviously still play it cool at the same time.

Sending those first messages to a guy can be a bit tricky. No need to panic though because if flirting over text isn’t your forte you we’ve got you covered.

Below you’ll find 130 of the best texts to send a guy that you just met that are flirty, fun, cute, sassy, playful and sweet. As well as, flirty ways to tell a guys he’s hot over text, (without being too forward of course!).

130 Flirty Text Messages To Send To A Guy You Just Met

These flirtatious texts can be used to start a fun conversation with a guy you just met, or one that you’ve been crushing on. You can also use them as the perfect reply. In case you need to know how to playfully respond to a flirty text from a guy.

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  1. Is it just me, or was the way we met unbelievably cute?
  2. Last night was the best. I always fall for people who “XYZ” (Insert something you have in common or something interesting he said or did here.)
  3. Are you this cute all the time, or did I just catch you on a really good day?
  4. Do you want me to make the first move, or should I wait for you to be inspired? 😉
  5. Wow, this was shaping up to be just another Wednesday—and then I met you…:)
  6. In case you were wondering, no you don’t have to wait 3 days to text me.
  7. So cool to meet you, it was the perfect way to end my week…:) (Or if you met early in the week substitute start my week.)
  8. I know I’m supposed to wait to text you, but I can’t help myself.
  9. If you want to make a move, today would be the perfect time to go for it.
  10. Big spoon or little spoon? Asking for a friend…😉
  11. I checked out that band you told me about. You’re right, they DO make the perfect dance music!
  12. What’s the first thing you notice about a girl?
  13. How have you gone so long without messaging me? I’m such a delight.
  14. Do you like it when girls make the first move?
  15. Kiss, marry, kill: Salsa, queso, guacamole…
  16. I heard that song you told me to about. I have to say I loved it! Let’s discuss next time we meet up…:)
  17. I feel like I’ve seen everything on Netflix. Have you watched anything cool lately? (Or movie, series, etc.)
  18. Thought you might like this song… (If you both love music sending him a cool, new song can be a great icebreaker.)

Flirty Things To Say To A Guy Over Text

Sassy, flirty messages are a great way tobreak the ice with a guythat you just met. Pick a text from the list below to get the playful banter going and perhaps even see if there’s a spark or two.

  1. What do you say,let’s skip the small talk and get straight to flirting…;)
  2. I’m making the first move when it comes to texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move when it comes to kissing.
  3. You won’t believe what happened to me today….
  4. Ok super important question…pizza or tacos?
  5. Send me the last meme you saved on your phone. It’s for science…
  6. I need to ask you a very deep, and serious question, and your answer will have huge consequences for both of us… pineapple on pizza yay or nay?
  7. Wanna trade secrets? (Adding a bit of mystery is always a good way to get the flirty banter started.)
  8. I was looking at the clock and thinking it’s about time you make a move on me…;)
  9. I spent 20 minutes trying to think of the perfect text to you, but I didn’t want to keep you waiting any longer, so, hello.🙂

Examples Of Flirty Texts To Send Him

Here are some examples of fun and flirty text messages to send a guy you just met:

  1. Guess which emoji I put next to your name in my phone?
  2. Hey, stranger. You should totally stop being a stranger…😉. (This one is a nice departure from your typical “hey stranger” text that usually goes nowhere. Because you’re letting him know that you’re interested in getting to know him more and hopefully in person.)
  3. Miss me yet?
  4. I’ve decided to to up my flirting game. Wanna practice with me?
  5. Is it just the WiFi? Or am I totally feeling a connection?
  6. So, I have officially texted you. Now I’m gonna be staring obsessively at my phone, just waiting for that little beep. Don’t make me wait, okay.
  7. Do you miss me? Type Y for yes.
  8. Ooh, a good morning text! I guess things are getting pretty serious, huh?…😉
  9. Well, I texted you. What are your other two wishes? 🧞
  10. Are you smiling right now? If you are that’s good. Very. Very. Good.
  11. Do you believe in love at first text or should I text you again?

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Cute Flirty Text Messages

Send sparks flying with that guy you just met with of these cute messages for him. I’ve also included a few you can use if you’ve had already a first date and want to keep the chemistry alive until date number two or three.

  1. So now that I’ve got your number, what’s next? 😉
  2. What was the name of that *insert thing* we were talking about the other day? I want to check it out.
  3. It must have been tough waiting for me all those years.
  4. I’d give our first date a solid 8.7 out of 10. What do you think?
  5. I’m not big on the whole wait three days rule, so I’m texting you now.
  6. Can I save you in my phone as future loml… 😉
  7. That Instagram photo you just posted is ridiculously handsome.
  8. This totally made me think of you…
  9. Tell me in 5 emojis how you feel about our 1st date?
  10. Pop quiz! I’m texting you because… a) You’re adorable b) Just saying hello c) All of the above.
  11. Breaking news….🔮 I see me in your future…😉
  12. Which emoji makes you think of me?
  13. I have to admit I was a bit nervous for our first date, but I thought it went really well! Nothing eases the tension quite like meeting someone who loves to “XZY” (Mention something you thought was cool or interesting that you have in common.)
  14. You could text me back or just ask me out to dinner. Just sayin’
  15. Our first date was 💯. I honestly can’t remember the last time I had that much fun 😍
  16. What’s was the best part of your day?
  17. Hey! Stop thinking about me so much!
  18. I think you are so *insert compliment* and it was so great meeting you today.
  19. Oh, so this is what butterflies feel like?Interesting….

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Playful Text Messages To Send Him

The best playful messages to send him. Perfect for when you’re still in that early stage of getting to know someone.

  1. I guarantee you, I’m not flirting with you. I’m just being extra nice to someone who’s extra attractive.
  2. I think that I’m going to have trouble sleeping tonight 😉
  3. I tried to send you something flirty, but I couldn’t fit in the text box.
  4. I hope your day is as nice as my butt…;)
  5. I hope this was your face when you saw my name pop up on your phone: *insert cute Meme, GIF or Emoji here*
  6. I’m watching a romcom, and the main character looks exactly like you. Except, not nearly as cute.
  7. I adore dogs, pics please 🙂 (Use this if he mentioned that he has dog or any other kind of pet.
  8. I just finished the series I was watching. Got any ideas on what I should watch next?
  9. I need some new music to listen to. Do you have suggestions for me?
  10. What’s on your reading list? I need another book to read.
  11. There is that cute guy I can’t stop thinking about… What should I do about him?
  12. I heard this song on the way to work today, and I thought you’d like it. (Make sure to include a song along with your message.)
  13. What was the last Netflix show you binged?
  14. Just heading out for a girl’s night….Drunk-text you later?
  15. I’m still single, in case you’re wondering. You?
  16. Where was that picture of you on your profile taken? It looks beautiful there.
  17. Which 3 emojis that sum up your day so far? I’ll go first…
  18. I just finished the last episode of my favorite show, and I need something to fill that void! What should I watch next?
  19. We should really stop texting and start seeing each other in person.

Flirty Texts To Make Him Laugh

Laughter is the best medicine and it’s also a great way to up the flirt factor of a conversation with that hot new guy. Whether you got his number after meeting on a dating app or after meeting him in person out and about, these texts will definitely get your text conversation started on a fun note!

  1. Going to Trader Joe’s, do you need anything?
  2. Write me the story of our future first date using only emojis.
  3. I have 4% battery remaining, but I chose to message you…:)
  4. What’s your guilty pleasure? I’m not ashamed to admit that I’m watching Love Is Blind right now.
  5. Stop sending me mixed signals and send me a pic of your huge biceps. 😉
  6. Just want to point out, if you want to message me first, you still can.
  7. My mom just asked me what WAP meant… any advice on how to navigate that conversation?
  8. Hmm, I think your first message to me must have gotten lost in cyberspace… It’s OK. I’ll send you one.
  9. Your taste in music is amazing! You’re now on deck to be my own personal DJ.
  10. Hey, Sexy! Oops sorry, I meant [insert guy’s name]. Autocorrect can be so annoying, right?
  11. I bet my dog would like you.
  12. Describe yourself in three GIFs.
  13. How can you stay away from me? I know you thought of me all night long…;)
  14. I just saw the new picture you uploaded. Looking hotter than ever, I see.
  15. So was meeting me as good for you as it was for me? 😉
  16. Congrats. You’ve levelled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself!

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Flirty Lines To Say To A Guy Over Text

Send him one of the texts below if you don’t want to come across as too forward or obvious. Yet you want to see if there’s some potential for things to get a little more playful.

  1. What’s the nerdiest thing you’re willing to admit?
  2. Are you obsessed with anything right now?
  3. Sunday priorities – Netflix, Working Out or Brunch & Bottomless Mimosas?
  4. In YHO What’s the perfect way to ask someone out? Throw him this one and you never now, you could be on your way to your first or next date with him….
  5. You always bring a smile to my face, I can’t stop thinking about how how funny you are…:)
  6. I need some new music to spice up my playlist. Got any recommendations for me?
  7. What do you think is your best feature?
  8. What do you think is my best feature?
  9. OK…two truths and a lie. I’ll go first…
  10. Where would you visit if you could go anywhere right now?
  11. Even over text, you’re adorable…😍
  12. I have to say I think that you’re one of the most interesting people I’ve met in ages…:)
  13. What’s one thing people assume about you that isn’t necessarily true?
  14. What was the superpower you always wanted as a kid?
  15. What usually attracts you to somebody? For me, it’s always a man with a sense of style and a love of dogs 🙂
  16. Be honest. How long did you wait to text me so it wouldn’t be awkward?
  17. Serious question are you a dog or cat person?
  18. Would you rather be invisible or have x-ray vision?

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Cute, Flirty & Sassy Text Messages To Send To A Guy

  1. Should this conversation be a) friendly, b) flirty, or C) sexy?
  2. Be honest. What was your first impression of me? Because you’re even cuter than I thought you’d be.
  3. How’d you get to be so cute?
  4. I have to confess I don’t always make the best flirt, but I will seduce you with my awkwardness…Is it working yet?..;)
  5. I think you’re super hot, but I thought I’d check your grammar skills over text first….;)
  6. I wore the cutest outfit today. Too bad you didn’t get to see it.
  7. Do you think guys should always make the first move?
  8. Our first kiss is going to be epic, don’t you think?

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Flirty Things To Say To A Guy You Just Met

Meeting someone new can be an exciting experience, after all he could turn out to be Mr. Right. Stand out and make a lasting impression with your potential new dream guy by texting him one of the playful messages below:

  1. No more games, are we going to get strait to the flirting or what…;)
  2. What’s the cheesiest pick up line you’ve ever heard?
  3. Trust me, I’m worth the wait.
  4. Do you believe in lust at first sight or should I walk past you one more time?
  5. Any idea what I’m thinking about right now?…;)
  6. I can’t sleep. I blame you.
  7. What emoji do you usually use when you’re flirting?
  8. You’re lucky you’re so cute…it’s why I keep you around….;)
  9. Serious question…Breakfast, lunch, or dinner?(Trick question the only and obvious answer is brunch.)
  10. We should really have this conversation in person, instead.
  11. Texting is good, but when can I lay my eyes on those muscles of yours?
  12. Would you rather make the first move on a date or let your date make the first move?

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What To Text A Guy You Just Met (+ Examples)

Trying to decide which flirty text messages to send to a guy you just met can be nerve racking, but it doesn’t to be. As you can see from this list there are so many examples and ways that you can get the flirty banter started with him.

So why not just forget the rules, pick a text from the list above and get the ball rolling. Because you will never know what could be, if you don’t take your chances and send him that flirty message now.

Happy Texting!

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  2. Ask questions. ...
  3. Show off your sense of humor. ...
  4. Compliment them. ...
  5. Use emojis. ...
  6. Avoid the triple text. ...
  7. Don't ghost.
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Flirty texts for him
  1. Y/N: Thinking about me?
  2. Feeling cuddly? ...
  3. Still wearing your sweatshirt…
  4. Netflix? ...
  5. Can't stop thinking about your lips.
  6. How much skin is too much skin to show on our date tonight?
  7. You're my favorite veggie—a cute-cumber!
  8. Thinking a lot of things about you I can't say…but I could text.
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The 5 texts guys love to receive:
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  • The Give Me Advice Text. “I need new headphones, do you have any suggestions?”
  • The Short and Sweet Text. “I work till 6. ...
  • The Pick the Place Text. “Do you want to meet at Smitty's at 6 tomorrow for Happy Hour?” ...
  • The Sexy Text.
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  1. Keep it short and sweet. As a general rule, the simpler the message, the better. ...
  2. Stay positive. Flirting, by nature, is meant to be cheerful and lighthearted — it should make you both feel like you're in high school again. ...
  3. Be complimentary.
  4. Ask a playful question.
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Flirting is the single most powerful skill which if done the right way can bring immense excitement in any kind of romantic relationship
  1. Play with Confidence.
  2. 'Make and Break' Eye Contact.
  3. Smile and be a good listener.
  4. Gentle and respectful touches.
  5. Tease through flirtatious texts.
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  1. 1 “You've been on my mind all day.”
  2. 2 “You look absolutely amazing today!”
  3. 3 “WOW 😍You're SO handsome!”
  4. 4 “Did you know that you're super hot? ...
  5. 5 “Your smile brightens my day!”
  6. 6 “It's so cute when you make that face 😘”
  7. 7 “You make me the happiest I've ever been 😊”

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Flirty Compliments for a Handsome Man
  • I just have to tell you that those jeans look amazing.
  • You smell pretty great. ...
  • I love the way you walk.
  • You notice all the people checking you out, right?
  • I can't stop thinking about how great you looked last night.
  • Your smile makes my knees a little wobbly.

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If you've had a tough day, let him know.
  1. "I wish you were here to make me feel better."
  2. "I had the toughest workout. I wish you could come give me a massage."
  3. "Ugh work was so stressful. I really need a hug."
  4. "I need some cuddles to get my mind off of things!"
  5. "I'm so bored... I bet you could entertain me, though."

How to text a guy first without sounding desperate examples? ›

Send a confident message that shows you're interested.

You can totally text him a short message that lets him know you're interested. This also shows him you're confident and not afraid to get what you want. You might text, "Hey, I had a really great time with you yesterday. We should meet up after I get back in town."

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If your husband needs a bit of a nudge, here are some small ways to give the him butterflies he had when you were dating:
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  2. Cook together. ...
  3. Do something active outside together. ...
  4. Rub his back. ...
  5. Give him a framed picture of the two of you. ...
  6. Say thank you. ...
  7. Connect with him emotionally. ...
  8. Take a road trip.
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Here are a couple of such examples of these texts that will make him chase you:
  1. "I just wanted to say how much I enjoy your sense of humor." You always manage to make me laugh."
  2. "That was such a thoughtful gesture you made yesterday. It really meant a lot to me."
  3. "You're so intelligent and insightful.
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For conversations to be organic and comfortable, don't give into the pressures of boring small-talk. Instead, try to talk about things that are in genuine interest to you! Avoid asking questions that you don't care to know the answer to, and alternately identify the things that attracted you to them in the first place.

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Seduce a woman through texting by following the below-given tips:
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  2. Take Some Time to Reply Back. ...
  3. Use Emojis. ...
  4. Point Errors in Her Messages Playfully. ...
  5. Text Her at Appropriate Times. ...
  6. Text Her Before Bedtime.
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How do you flirt to the next stage? ›

Focus on what is meaningful to them and learn more about these things. Empathize by listening and honoring the person's feelings, and convey respect and affection by referring to him or her by name. These techniques may break up superficial small talk and deepen the dialogue.


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